Mark, Thanks for your comments, it would be nice if the board could be more like "sitting round the general store stove" but when the ONLY thing that you have for communicating is the printed word, many of the subtile things that make hummor fun are TOTALLY lost - the inflection in the voice, the way the eyes or head are held, the hands, and so forth. Those little things that tell everyone not to take what is being said seriously. And of course, the ones that do get "ribbed" even worse the next time. Regardless of our background, training, or vocation, there is a little of the "shop mentality" in all of us, that is the attempt to "one up" the other guys, something that can easily get out of hand. In the shop, when it did, the foreman usually put a stop to it pronto, since it would soon affect the production of the shop - could NOT let that happen! When I was a kid there was an expression, "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me!" But we have unwittingly trained ourselves to let "names" get to us. For example, how many people have been killed because they "purportedly" "dissed" (disrespected) the killer?? Too, many in the gettos! The "politically correct" requirement on speech is a manifistation of this "training of people" to be insulted/angered/etc. by simple words. This then allows the polition to "control" a group giving him power that he would not otherwise be able to obtain. The word that starts with the same letter as a certian tractor model, is an example. If you have been on this board long enough, or have read other web site boards, you know that there are those, that we call "trolls", that LOVE to stir up trouble. And naturally, there are those that take up the "bait" and give the troll what he wants, power to control people, even if it is only the power to make them MAD! On the web it is SO easy to bait someone with vile words directed at them and it is almost totally without danger to the troll. BUT, in a bar, for example, a troll would not get away with some of the things that he can on the web because the person he is baiting is can physically present not far away in some other state. Well, I have said enough! Regards, Larry
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