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Tom Evans

07-19-2006 17:52:11




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I rescued a neighbor whose overloaded trailer failed on the interstate. He was hauling at least a ton of composite decking material he bought at an auction. I would not have put more than 800# on it myself. The springs bent and the wheels went up into the deck and blew a tire. This is the second time this happened, and I fetched it the first time too, but he had already unloaded it that time.

Now, I used my pickup and 24' fifth wheel equipment trailer I use in my excavation business. We traveled down to pick up the rest of the material at the auction yard, came back to the spot where his trailer failed, transferred all the material to my trailer, tied it down, turned his trailer over and winched it up on top of the load and tied it down. This is in 90 degree heat next to 70mph interstate traffic. None of this was easy. I put 488 miles on the truck and burned $90 worth of fuel. It took 13 hours not including my time getting ready, going back to his place to retrieve my trailer after it was unloaded etc.

Now, the question is, was $350 too much to charge him? He thought it was outrageous and called me back, I tried to explain it to him, but he hung up on me. Your honest opinions please.

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Grandpa's 8N

07-21-2006 11:14:14




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
I noticed some of you quoted government rates for cars- To have a semi haul something your looking at $2.20 per loaded mile- True your not a semi- but a 1.50 a loaded mile plus extra for the labor to load- you are not out of line.



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tim[in]

07-20-2006 16:26:20




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
you probably should have told him that you would have to charge him this time. he may have been embarassed but then he could have at least told you he could or couldnt afford it. he may have thought you were a better friend than you are. some people do struggle to get by and may have to do things"the wrong way"like not being able to get a better trailor.but are still trying to better themselves by doing what they can.yeh this was extreme in the amount of miles,temps, and such. but you lead him to believe you would do it like the last time when you said you would do it, then not bothered telling him you were going to bill him.some people would think that was dirty too! not to get on either of you. i just think it was a misunderstanding or lack of communication. maybe he can return the favor sometime. just my opinion.i can see both sides. he may be more grateful than you can ever know , just desperate. armchair quaterbacking by us who are not there and do not know either party very well personally ,is easy and worthless.might be a lot better friend or neighbor in the future than you hoped for becuase of this.

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Chad OH

07-20-2006 11:33:40




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
I think you did a helluva good thing and are not at all asking too much.
I work a ton of hours away from home during the week. If I used up that much time during a precious weekend with my family, that is at least worth to me what you are asking.
Now, I have helped out a lot of people in the past never asked anything in return, or expecting it. Although I think it is a nice thing if a favor is a returned thing, whether it's equivilant to yours or not.
I have always done so.

I would ask for at least gas + a percentage for time & wear & tear.
Now, this may be extreme, but if it gets to a point in the debate where you truly want to justify your charge, get a quote from a company that does that type of rescue. That will accurately quantify and justify.
Compare and see who is right and hash it out from there.

Those type of people who have no respect for people or their time & thoughtfulness absolutely AMAZE me.

Just my 2 cents.
-Chad

P.S. Let us know how it turns out.

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John (MO)

07-20-2006 06:57:50




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
I think your charges were very fair, maybe more than fair. However I guess I`d be tempted to tell him he could pay me what he thought was fair this time. Next time he called, I`d say it`s so much a mile and so much an hour, would you still like me to help you out, or would you rather call someone else? The is no pleasing some people, regardless.



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flathead

07-20-2006 06:28:38




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
I see two ways to look at your pricing.

1. Assuming the auction yard was half the distance, you charged him $1.43 per loaded mile. And you got nothing for the extra labor for loading the junk.

2. If you were charging based on expenses, you charged $90.00 for fuel plus $20.00/hr. for labor.

Either way you look at it you were at or below fair market value for the service.

You should have also thrown in an inconvience fee (maybe $100.00) to cover having to drop everything to bail his cheap butt out, and working under hazardous conditions. You could have also added another, say 30%, to cover overhead (you didn't win that truck, trailer, chains, load binders, etc. in the lottery did you?).

This guys poor judgement got him into a situation that would have cost him a lot more if he had to deal with a recovery company with no prior scheduling.

Bottom line: No way you charged him too much. He should feel blessed that there was someone who was able to put his life on hold to get his junk off the highway and out of the auction yard.

flathead

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flathead

07-20-2006 07:06:44




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to flathead, 07-20-2006 06:28:38  
Here's another way to look at it. Assuming that fuel is a variable cost that the customer always pays:

If you charged $20.00/hour - That works out to $38,400/year(240 days @ 8hr/day). From that subtract 30% for overhead (small equip costs, electricity, insurance, equipment maintenance, etc.) = $29,583. Then subtract large equipment costs ($30,000 for a 3/4 ton truck with a service life of 5-years = $6,000/year and $4,000 for a trailer with a service life of 10-years = $600/year). = $23,138. Then subtract income tax say 28%.

You are left with $16,660 annual income and your business made no profit. If you paid yourself any more your company would go bankrupt.

I would stick with excavating if I were you. If your neighbor calls again, tell him your recovery business went under due to lack of profit and income.

Don't feel guilty, you did him a big favor.

flathead

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willie j

07-20-2006 05:20:19




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
Tom
You left out one bit of info that would make a big difference in my plan of action. How far from home did he break down? If it was a short distance to the breakdown, my plan would be to do the "rescue" by winching the loaded trailer onto mine, not re-pile the material, & drop at his place. After all, the "emergency" is to get the broken rig off the road, & the trailer needs major repair anyway. For a friend or close neighbor I would ask for a tank of fuel & he buys lunch.
He knew he had to make another trip to pick up the remaining materials, so timing on that part was not important. Then I would him advise to repair his trailer, or rent, beg borrow, steal, or even buy a stronger trailer, or negotiate a price & convenient time to make the second trip.
I have made several "emergency rescues" & that's just the way I do things. Willie J

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Tom Evans

07-20-2006 04:59:33




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
I truly appreciate the comments! I did charge him the last time, $200. I did not have to go nearly as far, did not have to transfer a load, and probably only took about half the time. This guy is not a neighbor like he lives across the street, only that he lives in the same small town. He is a friend of my son's. Around here, I do know most of the people I do business with. Thanks again folks, you are a great bunch, and I enjoy every bit of this forum.

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Jerry (AL)

07-20-2006 03:32:17




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
Not too high. But, it all depends on if there is a friendship there. I have some friends where I would have just asked them for the fuel. Then I have some "friends" where I would have asked $500 so I wouldn't ever have to do it again.

I think in this case I would have said " I spent xxx dollars and thirteen hours and spoiled my day" Pay me what you think it is worth" in a nice way.

If he offered you too little in your mind, the next time, I would have a flat on the trailer when he called.

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Empennage

07-19-2006 22:26:02




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
You did all that for 350.00 bucks...?

Do you own a horse trailer?



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Tejas

07-19-2006 22:07:39




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
Okay, here's my 2 cents: I think the price was right, but these are hard time and some times it cost to be a good neighbor. I find it's better to have someone owe me than to owe someone. He should at least pay for gas and wear and tear on your equipment. As others said he may be a leech,but a clear conscience is best. Next time you want to be a knight in shining armor you need to count the cost and let them know up front

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lonestarjeff

07-19-2006 21:41:00




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
IMHO, this guys sounds like he's gone thru his life making short-sighted decisions & counting on others(like you)to bail him out of the consequences. You didn't say the previous "rescue" was a freebee, but he reacted like he expected you to do this for nothing.

I don't know if anybody does what you did professionally, but if they did I'd put the price at $500-$600 minimum. I think your time alone is worth more than you asked for.

You've treated this guy like a friend, he treated you like a doormat. Sorry for the rant, but ingrates burn me up.

Jeff

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Russ SoCal

07-19-2006 20:39:18




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
I'm pretty close to Zane; it comes out to $476.88 on my fingers and toes.
Russ



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duey

07-19-2006 20:30:29




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
You'd go bankrupt trying to do that for a living... He got a fair enough deal.

The problem is not the bill, the problem is HIS valuation of other people's time, equipment and expense.

Sounds like it won't be a future problem and even if he doesn't pay you, it may be worth it.

duey



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DaveTx

07-19-2006 20:27:28




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
Well lets see if I can put my college edumacation to work. (Master's Degree in Business)

The IRS and most businesses allow 40.5 cents per mile. 488 miles X .405 = $198 (rounding)
198 + 90 you spent for gas = $288.

$350 - $288 = $62 (labor)

$62 (Labor) divided by hours you worked (13)

equals $4.77 per hour for your labor.

Yeah I'd say he got away pertty cheap!

Now let me tell you a true story. A friend of mine wanted to borrow my motorcycle one Sunday afternoon and go riding. I said; "Jeff its out of registration." Jeff said; "That's OK I don't mind." So he rode it around all afternoon and at church Sunday night handed me my keys back along with the ticket he got for riding without it being registered. I handed him back the ticket and reminded hin that I had told him it was out of registration. He said; "Well I'm not paying it". I said; "Suits me, they don't come after the bike's owner - they come after the rider." He picked up the ticket and said; "Well, would you split it with me?" I said "No." But the good thing that came out of all that was I now had an excuse to not ever let himm ride the bike again. People are strange.

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Dave H (MI)

07-20-2006 17:33:47




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to DaveTx, 07-19-2006 20:27:28  
Except the standard mileage rate INCLUDES gas. That has been the rule since about the time of the flood. So much for higher learning! :-)



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Dan (NYC)

07-19-2006 20:16:11




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
That is a tough situation you might have known more about him if you gave a number up front. People like that are great you can write them off for 13 hours and never worry about them again. I always hope to do more for others than I owe. Sounds you did more than average. Dan



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The Yank

07-19-2006 19:49:58




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
I assume you made an honest attempt at coming up with a fair amount of money to charge. You are the only one qualified to value your time. If your neighbor does not agree with your opinion, so what. Does not really matter. If his concern when he called you was money, then he should have asked for a quote.

If I was in the same situation I would call my neighbor back and apologize. I would say "I am really sorry we have a difference of opinion on the value of my time. You owe me nothing. Goodbye" hangup.

I would be tempted to yell and scream and tell him to stay on his side of the street, etc, etc, But then again that would make me look like an idiot like him. Instead, smile when you say goodbye Knowing you will never have to deal with again.

Write if off and walk away. Be happy.

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souNdguy

07-19-2006 19:33:00




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
I figure my time plus fuel. Perhaps a slight discount from that number for the 'neighbor' factor.

I use those calcs as i generally work 6 days a week.. and If i am helping someone for 13 hours.. I've lost a day.. or 2 half days worth of work.

If this were a friend...depending on the circumstances.. It might be a fuelplus, fuel only, or free.. again.. depending on the 'level' of friendship.. and how we treat each other.. etc.

In any case.. He'd have paid more to rent a trailer and a hired hand to do the same work..

If he's making a huge issue out of it.. you can always call him back and ask him what he felt it was worth.... accept whatever he said.. ( even if 'free', then I'd loose his phone number and I'd just chalk it up to him being a freeloading cheap b@****d, and write him off forever..

Soundguy

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ZANE

07-19-2006 19:17:55




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
You should have charged him $500. With friends like that who needs enemies?????

Maybe that will cure him of overloading his tiny trailer and keep him from calling on you again!

Zane



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ron,ar

07-19-2006 19:11:16




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He did get a fair deal. He didn't get taken and you didn't get rich....but..you called him your neighbor, you didn't call him your friend as others here have inferred. I have a good friend that I do things for, mechanic work mostly, and he helps me, tractor work/hauling mostly. We never charge each other, and we are always doing something to help the other one. Both of us usually offer to pay the other and usually ask "how much do I owe you" knowing what the answer is going to be. "nothing, I may need a favor sometime". My point is that there is a difference between helping a friend and helping someone you know (neighbor) that tends to expect it. If he is a friend in the true sense of the word he would have offered to pay your expenses, up to you whether to accept payment or not. If it had been me I would have asked up front what you would have charged, he should have too. I saw a bumper sticker the other day, it sorta applies here:
YES THIS IS MY TRUCK,NO I WON'T HELP YOU MOVE!!!! You did the right thing by helping him, he should have at least offered to pay you, without being "charged". JMHO

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FarmerDawn

07-19-2006 19:09:02




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
Chicken that I am, I kind of waited until others weighed in before I said anything about this, because I just didn't know how you guys would see it. I was seeing it from the point of view of a stranded person. And what would have hit ME, had I been the culprit here, is that I had endangered your life with my foolishness, Tom.

Unloading that stuff and hooking it all up, the whole thing, on the side of a busy highway with traffic going 70 mph -- that's the kind of situation that often results in a fatality at the least and a chain-reaction pile-up at the worst. And he put you squarely in the middle of it. You were out of your vehicle, walking around, carrying stuff, right? With people whizzing past you. Highway workers in speed-controlled zones and police officers with rotating lights on their cars get killed in those situations.

If this was the first time he'd done it, I could see him not having realized what a fool he was to overload his trailer that way. And even then, I would expect him to have been seriously sobered by the consequences, and wanting to do anything he could to thank you for putting it all on the line to bail him out. But it was the second time. The SECOND! I can't believe he did it again! I think you would be within your rights to never have anything to do with him again. He obviously doesn't care about you at all.

Or at least, that's how it seems to me. $350 is cheap. YOU could have paid for this with your LIFE.

(I hope I am not being overly-melodramatic. I know I see things like this a little differently from a guy sometimes.)

Dawn

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Tom N MS

07-19-2006 19:06:20




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
$250-$275 would have been plenty high.



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Lumpy

07-19-2006 18:53:00




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
Hell No! Next time he wants you to rescue him flip him a quarter and tell him to call someone who CARES!!!



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Paul L - Ohio

07-19-2006 18:47:44




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
Sounds fair to me. I have often passed over many good auction buys because there was no way to get it home.



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James Rader

07-19-2006 18:40:44




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
You didn't say if you charged him the first time? but I would guess that $350 this time will probably make him think a lot harder about how he loads that trailer next time... Maybe he has an abundance of friends with heavy duty trailers and strong trucks and a willingness to drop everything for the emergency at hand... but some how I truly doubt it!

If you really want a reasonable estimate of what your services was worth, you could call a towing company and just see what a 488 mile tow and recovery would cost for a disabled trailer in your area. I called a friend at a local towing company and asked him, I was told a roll back (flat bed truck) at 488 miles would be $375 plus $45 recovery fee plus if the driver felt that the load of the trailer and contents would overload or would cause a hazard in the transport of the trailer, then the owner would be obligated to unload a portion or maybe all of the load or pay an additional $35 per hour labor fee for the towing company to handle the unloading. If the materials was unloaded by the tow company it would be placed on the side of the road and would be the owners responsibility. In addition he said that if the owner opted to unload the trailer himself the tow driver would not be obligated to wait on him to occomplish the task, and it would still cost $45 for the driver to have come out.

Sounds like you are a true friend and have given him a great bargain. I figure that this would have cost well over $800 around my neck of the woods.

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crazy8

07-19-2006 18:34:01




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
Your neighbor needs a reality check. You sure aint gettin rich helpin him. Did you charge him for last time his junk broke? Be sure to mention this to him. If he is a friend , usually the favor will be returned soon enough, at least thats been my experiance. I would be all to glad to have that type of assistance, you cant call just anybody to do the service you have.



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Sean (TX)

07-19-2006 18:28:53




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
Sounds fair to me. Tell hime next time to check on the rental fee on a truck and trailer right for the job!!. Plust 12 per hour for a helper. If he dont pay I think it is time for the cold shoulder.



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donald mowrey

07-19-2006 18:20:14




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
Well just my opinion but I dont think it was to much to charge considering the gas prices , your time and your trailer ect, If he had other options like getting a trailer and getting it him self why didn,t he, I mean it would have still cost for a trailer rental and his labor, gas and figuring how to transport his trailer back or get it fixed so what did he expect,I do know some people like that and I have found the best thing to tell them is well I am busy and have other plans and can,t do it , because you know it will just cause more headaches for you than its worth, as far as I am concerned since you helped him 2 times now its like he got the first time for free, I also know other guys who in the same situation would have filled up my truck before we left and then wanted to pay for dinner lunch and whatever bills you incurred and not thought any thing about it because they are not trying to get something for nothing ,I would have probably told him up front the price . If the guy ever needs any thing again tell him up front a price and then there are no surprises, if he says ok then no problem if he doesnt like the price then he can get his own trailer and help , just my opinion.

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Bryan in WI

07-19-2006 18:10:46




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
Any time you want to come and work for me like that with your own truck and trailer for a 13 hr day and move hundreds of pounds of stuff for $20 per hour let me know. That's what you are charging him after the fuel. He is getting a really good deal, and 350 is not too much.



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Ford 312

07-19-2006 18:08:21




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
It sounds to me like he got a bargain. IRS allows 44.5 per mile for a car for mileage. If you take 44.5 X 488 miles that would be $217.16. Your time should be worth at least $10.00 per hour or $130.00. This doesn't consider the extra cost of operating a truck or the use of your trailer, plus your extra time and expense of going back after the trailer. I would say you are not out of line at all.

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seeyalatergator

07-19-2006 18:02:00




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 Re: Honest opinions please - o.t. in reply to Tom Evans, 07-19-2006 17:52:11  
Absolutely not! Fuel and other equipment costs are way too expensive to do something like that for free. A man whom I respect very much was once asked why he charged his friends to do some things and his response was right on! He said: "Son, you have to charge your friends, because your enemies don"t come around."



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