Here we go again - usually pops up about once every six months or so. Dell is indeed an asset to this board. That said - I don't much like his method of delivery on help. Not too many people like to be a new owner of an antique tractor and when they find this great board to post a question on a problem they are having, it is a good chance they will basically be called an idiot if Dell replies. NOBODY likes to be belittled. I believe the exact same help could be delievered in a much more newbie freindly format as to not run off new blood to this forum. Me and Dell have had our spats in the past (he basically called me an idiot for not knowing something that should be "intuitively obvious" for any Electrical Engineer - which I am not, and I don't put up with that kind of treatment) - and no, his reply was not appreciated. I know he helps a lot of people here, but most of the people he helps are the readers of posts where guys ask questions and get a tongue lashing from Dell - they are not the recipients of the verbal abuse, just the bystander. There are plenty of others who will help in a more respectful manner. I would rather have 10 guys who kinda know an issue help me politely, than one who is a guru who talks to you like an abusive father. Before any Dell lovers get upset at my post - this is JUST MY OPINION - like everyone is entitled to. I do like the diversity of this board, and understand it takes all kinds of personalities to make a online community. However, we do not need to run off new blood to this hobby giving them a bad taste of this site and antique tractor folks in general - and I have seen it happen personally with several due to Dell's replies over the years I have been here. I try my best to help everyone in a friendly manner, even though I don't know as much as Dell or several others here. I don't dislike Dell as a person - but you never see me ask directly for his help neither, and he rarely replies to my posts as well. There are way to many other knowledgable people I can get good advice from like I have in the years since our spat. Just my $.02, Dan
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