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O.T. life sucks

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chiefrunamuk

10-24-2007 16:32:40




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Yes life sucks big time;; March, found out wife has bone cancer, chemo won't work; June 27 DAD 93 years old passed away,same day found out SON 46 has inoperable cancer
Monday while his WIFE was in Texas with thier daughter WIFE passed away,not exactly tractor related, just needed to vent KEN P.S.sorry about rant




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fixerupper

10-25-2007 06:45:48




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  
Ditto on everything everyone has said. A lot of us have had some sort of personal trajedy in our lives, and we don't know how you feel personally, but you are on the right track venting to us. Just plain talking about something, no matter what it is, does help relieve the frustration and pain for a little while. God bless you and your family and I wish you the best for the future. Jim



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buickanddeere

10-25-2007 06:12:06




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  
Sorry to hear of your misfortune & I hope and pray for some good some how out of it all. While it's little comfort and all I can think of. Perhapes getting the grieving done in one batch might be better than three separate occasions??? Us middle aged geezers are in the age and stage we should have been getting medical checks earlier. There are numerous problems we could avoid with only a little effort.

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Spook

10-24-2007 22:19:44




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  
God Bless. Joan & Irv LaLonde.



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K.W. in Tx

10-24-2007 21:27:17




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  
Im gonna pray that GOD sends yall a miracle. Remember you got to have faith that god is working behind the scenes and believe god is in control and is goin to pull yall through. Its hard to do sometimes I know it seems like its hopeless but trust in god with all you got. And railhead hit it on the nail I think. Im not tryin to pry it into you but it has help me through some rough times and brother I feel for ya. I lost 5 people in my family the past two years. I feel lost without them, but I know its part of gods plan. I beleive there is a reason we all go through hard times, even tho we why that is. God Bless and yall are in my prayers. And thats not a rant.

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K.W. in Tx

10-24-2007 21:34:45




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to K.W. in Tx, 10-24-2007 21:27:17  
John A. Has some good advice too.



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John A.

10-24-2007 21:26:53




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  
Ken, I will not say I know how you feel , for I do Not! But I, just like most of the others have our share of hard knocks! BUT.....
It is NOW More than ever, go to that place at home, barn, down by the stream, "That Quiet Place" Tell the LORD about it, Cry out for help!, Yes The LORD has thick enough skin to let you be mad for a while. BUT...Do Not Let This Stay Bottled Up Inside Yourself, It will eat you up from the inside! And take away your Joy of Life. Give it over to him, Listen for his reply to you. HE will make some thing good from this situation.
Yes, go open your Bible and read, search out those scriptures that have given you comfort in the past, they will help you now, go visit with your Pastor, or other Godly Counsel. ask for prayers from others whom you feel close to, and are comfortable visiting with.
Hope this helps, I will be praying for you!
Later,
John A.

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paul

10-24-2007 20:01:36




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  
I'm so sorry to hear.

Fall of '99 mom had cancer/ heart surgery/ passed away.

Fall of '02 dad got very sick.

Fall of '03 dad passed away.

Fall of '06 my sis got cancer.

Fall of '07 it came back again.

I won't say I know how you feel. You have more.... But I wish you & yours well, and try to keep your spirits up.

I wish I could have a good harvest - my crops seem to stay out in the fields, too many other things to deal with. And so on. It's those unthought of 'unimportant' things that can get a person down. Along with all the big stuff.

You come back & vent some more.

--->Paul

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JMS/.MN

10-24-2007 22:22:48




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to paul, 10-24-2007 20:01:36  
paul- your last line was right on..... .....come back to vent..... ....we all need that opportunity when we are troubled. Whether we do it here, on the net, or sharing a hug with our neighbors at church, etc, And sometimes, no words need to be said..... .....just holding a friend- says everything.



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kyplowboy

10-24-2007 19:40:13




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  
Not going to pretend that I know how all that feels but I can say my heart goes out to you and yours. Will send up a prayer for yall. Had a friend up the road that had a spell about like that about ten years ago. In a years time he lost his wife, a daughter, grand doughter, then his life all to differnt forms of cancer. I think about him alot when it seems my life is not going well. I hope the best for you and yours.

God Bless,

Dave

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bradk

10-24-2007 19:37:56




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  
Words cannot tell you how sorry I am for the hard times you are going through.I hope you find peace and that this message finds you and finds you well.Take care. ~brad



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Gene Davis (Ga.)

10-24-2007 19:33:36




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  
Try to think of all the good things associated with each person and then maybe God's plan for your life will be clearer to you in some way.



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railhead

10-24-2007 19:32:07




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  
The Lord will not put more on you than you can bear but that is hard to hear now. I am praying for you brother.



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e

10-24-2007 19:16:06




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  
Did your wife check with City of Hope in California? There is a procedure called TBI (total body iradiation) that is done on a TomoTherapy machine to treat bone cancer. That might be the ticket. Not all doctors are up on their stuff oddly enough. What type of cancer does your son have?



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RJ-AZ

10-24-2007 18:32:41




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  
Sorry to hear the news. I feel whats going on in your life as well. We will be holding the memorial service for my wife of 27 years who passed away this least Sunday. Only he Lord knows the great plan.



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Bob

10-24-2007 18:18:34




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  
Peace be with you.



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Randy S

10-24-2007 17:35:41




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  
Very sorry to hear of your troubles. Prayers are with you and yours. To me thats not a rant but something that must be talked about to work ones way thru.

Randy



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lenray

10-24-2007 16:57:00




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  
Very sorry to hear of all of your troubles--just not fair.
I said a prayer for you and your family.



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Janicholson

10-24-2007 16:50:29




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  
The best one can do is to honor their spirit by being solidly in line with the best each had/has provided as an example in their lives. Being as good as several others is a great way to be very positive. Peace be with you. JimN



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KEH

10-24-2007 16:44:40




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  

I can't adequately express how sorry I am, but you have my deepest sympathy and prayers.

KEH



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Jim SC

10-24-2007 16:40:33




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to chiefrunamuk, 10-24-2007 16:32:40  
I cannot begin to understand what you are going through...but I am praying for you and offer my sincerest sympathy. I am certain others here feel the same way.
God Bless.



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RayP(MI)

10-24-2007 17:25:54




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to Jim SC, 10-24-2007 16:40:33  
Dittos on Jim's post. God Bless.



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rrlund

10-25-2007 07:45:38




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 Re: O.T. life sucks in reply to RayP(MI), 10-24-2007 17:25:54  
Same here. Sometimes it just all piles up. When I look at where some people are though and the course of events that got them where they are now,it's just amazing where unfortunate events can take you. Not always bad in the end. Maybe just a new beginning for you. You might be amazed where you are in 10 years.



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