We experienced the same thing in my family a few years ago. Three of my grandparents were getting bad right in succession. My parents and one aunt could not keep up. Too heavy to lift without a lift, bathing, etc. It was slowly mentally killing my parents.
Being one step removed, my sister and I convinced them it was time for the senior center/convalesant home. It was a little tough convincing my parents, since they thought they were admitting defeat by being unable to care for their parents.
When we put the grandparents in, you could see the stress immediately go away from my parents, AND my grandparents were happy, they could talk to lots of others their age all day.
I guess what I am saying is, look at what you have said and pretend it is some one other than, say one of your friends. What advice would you give them? When its family people tend to make decisions based more on emotion that the data presented to them.
My advice (cause I am that person that doesnt have a vested interest but you asked for an opinion)....
Your own words, you said it killing you (physical), you cant sleep (physical and mental stress), exhausted (mental) I think you should check into permanent care for them, before you end up along with them with a heart issue.
Reviewing what I typed, please read it as advice, nothing is meant to sound mean at all. You asked a tough question, and I find its hard to answer those questions typing on a computer.
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