NCWayne you are proving my point in that YOU WANT BLOOD from your wife's ex-husband. It would be fine with you to throw the kid's father in jail and throw away the key. In your mind you would have "won" the war. He would be punished for his not paying his child support. Guess who really lost??? The kids. They get to see their father thrown in jail or not get to see him.
Also you would be fine with a pay to play type of visitation-vs-support deal. Not current on support and no visitation. Sounds great to you????? You see the kids are the ones getting punished too. This is their father that they are not getting to see. They can care less about seeing you the step Dad. You can be the best Step Dad in the world and their Dad is still just that THEIR DAD!!!
I look at life differently. If I marry a woman and she has kids then I expect to support them just like they where mine. There would be no issue with the level of care/standard of living they received. They would get the same as any born to me. If they received child support it would go into a college fund. I have always been able to support several kids in this house hold. Did it for most of my adult life with my own kids and a whole bunch of foster kids. Yes we did get paid by the state for being foster parents. Guess what?? That money was put into a trust account in each kid's name. When they had a need after they where away from us that money was for that. Most of the kids we had where teenagers. We usually had them while they finished high school. Many went to college and many just got jobs but all but one is a good productive citizen. That one is a jail bird. Just a bad person.
I think this is the worst thing about divorce. It turns the family relationship into a financial deal. It becomes who is paying what rather than just doing it and making sure the kids have what they need. There should never have been his/her kids. Just my kids.
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