Posted by ml_work on October 24, 2015 at 21:22:10 from (162.72.162.216):
In Reply to: Finally a great day! posted by JayinNY on October 24, 2015 at 12:36:25:
Jay, I don't know you but I have been where you are at.
I will not go into all may details and how I learned what I will try to pass on to you, but I feel it is a truth worth passing on.
No matter how the court case comes out ( and I fully agree with you that at times, it seems the courts - any state - are pro mom) you have to do your BEST not to talk about your daughters mother in a bad way. It will be hard at times, you will think if I bite my tongue any more I will bite it into. When your daughter is with you, allow her to talk about things she and her mother do or have done. Without fear of you having a negative response. She needs to feel free to love her mother and her father. Which she will do no matter what you or her mother say. No child should have to feel like "when I am at my moms I have to act as if I don't love my dad" or the other way around. We as adults have to remember and let our children know they had not part or fault of the divorce.
As time goes on and your daughter gets older, she will know the truth as much as she should. She will resent the parent that did not allow her to love the other, just as it was meant to be.
So no matter how much time you get her, make the best of it just like you did today. By the way she is beautiful, make sure you tell her that everyday for the rest of her life!
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