Been thinking about this thread for the past hour.......
First, I forgot to say, sorry for the passing of your mom. Everyone handles such things differently, I'll guess you and your siblings have different ways of looking at and handling that part of the deal.
It appears you are very gangbusters about getting on with things. That is how some people deal with stuff.
Perhaps some of your siblings are much slower, and want time to accept and move on with things. You are ready to move in the dumpsters, others want time to think it through, let things settle in their mind? It's difficult to see the other side of how people deal with grief differently.
Anyhow, pushing to get an estate settled in two months time where real estate is involved is crazy. Things don't work that way. Slow down, slow way down!
After a year, you can start asking some questions. And see if things can move some.
At two months, your brother barely has the paerwork he needs for the first level, to go get the paperwork he needs for the next level of sorting an estate out.
Don't push so fast.
Nothing good will come of that.
Don't be changing or fixing or dumping out items that still belong to the estate. It's not your stuff yet. It belongs to the estate. Not you.
Slow down.
This is a thing that takes time. Your brother has to work with many govt agencies. We joke about standing in line at drivers licence office. Well, the whole estate govt offices are concerned with giving time for an estate to find all the papers and claimants to be found, as well as assessing all the taxes that are due. Both those operations take lots of time, and detail, and pass through many slow motion govt offices.
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