Posted by T_Bone on October 03, 2008 at 18:12:10 from (4.240.42.17):
In Reply to: Re: Dating dilemma posted by john in la on October 02, 2008 at 20:40:11:
Hi John,
In 40yrs, I've offered advice too my kids. With the daughter & DIL & SIL, it's in one ear out the other, upon any advice given, wheather asked for or not.
With the son, he'll listen and maybe ask as few questions, but he generally makes his own decision and already has made that decision when he asks for advice. It's like he's just letting me know the direction he's heading more than asking for advice.
About the only suggestion I'd make too your son, is he might consider NOT marrying her so she can collect medicare (80% medical after 2yrs on disability) and SSI disability (about $650/mth).
If she applies for any State medicade benefits, then him living with her will be considered against her benefit amount, as they don't have to be married. If he has his own home address away from her's, they may get away with it for "awhile".
I would bet your wife stands a good chance of loosing her son if she continues to voice her opinion as fact. Ask me how I know this! I just about drove the daughter away from both of us. I now just bite my tongue and walk away. This has worked better than any other method I've tried with her.
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