Posted by northeast iowa on March 14, 2010 at 10:13:45 from (206.72.18.89):
In Reply to: CAUGHT HER!!!!!!!!! posted by phillip d on March 13, 2010 at 20:48:21:
I guess my guesses were on target. Hey forget anything the negitave folks post here, they are clueless as to your situation. It more than likley puts a stamp on their personality.
If it's a no fault state, you could video them in bed, and not mean anything at all in the court system. As I stated before she doesn't care anymore who knows. She has crossed that line, and even her parents opinion makes no differance to her.
Your attorney will shock you with the real facts of importance -- not what the moral majority thinks is a card in your favor. Taking pictures of her car parked elsewhere has been considered a controling her life issue before in Iowa. ASK your attorney.
If indeed children are involved / custody. Do you have a fathers for equal rights group?
Your banker is going to be nervous as you have never seen before, and a request for a double signature is often a good idea. Have you checked your accounts lately?
If there is a cutody battle, keep this in mind if you want to sneak the issue into the court system. In your opinion she is capable of being a very good mother. You would like to have the children untill she gets her life back together.
While she is out having a good time with the guys, WHO is spending quality time with the kids? This has been known to work, The judges usualy do not aprove, but the legal part of it is another side they are to stand by. But it probably the best you got.
Is she a hottie? If so, every woman in your small town considers her as a threat. They will not come forth with any negative staments even if you ask for them. They do not want to get involved. BUT, if you make them comfortable and never bring up the subject of your divorce, they sure as heck will once they are comfortable. You will be surprised what comes out of the wood work. Women will rip another threat in to shreads if given the opertunity. That is their nature.
If you need someone to talk to, I will post my number, I can't give you all the answers you want to hear, but certianly will help anyone going through those divorce doors.
I wish there was a pill you could take to settle your stomach, and let you think of something else for more than a second at a time. You are thinking sleep would be good? Ain't going to happen for a while, I'm sorry to say.
Don't ever miss any child function, and never let her know in any shape size or form, that you know anything about her activities. (THAT IS VERY TOUGH) A surprise in a court room is something she and her attorney can not prepare for ahead of time.
The courts frown on bad mouthing the other spouce, You are the one if granted custody, You will try to cooperate and get along, and hope she sees the kids real often.
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