Re: OT: dont know what to do...wife probs.

Posted by Billy NY on June 03, 2007 at 17:13:21 from (152.163.100.14):

In Reply to: OT: dont know what to do...wife probs. posted by marriage problems. on June 03, 2007 at 15:40:46:

I can understand where you are at, and yet we don't have the other side of the story, but that is ok, as long as your description is fair to what is going on.

The best thing you can do, is get together and have a serious discussion about the things that seem so embedded in her personality and yours, and verify the things that you describe are genuine to her and will not change, meaning you will never agree on or see eye to eye about. You really need to know the truth about all things between you, try to do it in a civil, mature, friendly, but serious manner. If there is no way things can be worked on or you can help each other in this, very difficult to be happy together, then you have to make the decision after you have given serious consideration the issues at hand. People do make mistakes when getting married, it is very unfortunate, the only thing that can happen is they both figure out how to change, grow or part their seperate ways so that both cna find the happiness they deserve. Religion is a very personal issue, chores and domestic things around the house are things both need to contribute to so that neither has an unequal share.

Personally, I have always done cooking, laundry, and cleaning, it's really appreciated when someone does these things for me, I can't see myself depending on woman to do these things in these modern times, many resent those old school roles and many husbands abuse the situation, everything in life always gets done by hard work and dedication, when two people are together, something fair has to work out or it's lop sided and that is not fair.

I wish the best for both of you, it's not easy by any means, there is no doubt about that, you do your best and never give up until things become impossible, which may be the case now.

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