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Posted by marriage problems. on June 03, 2007 at 15:40:46 from (69.218.213.226):
hi all,
I need some advice, I respect the opinions on here and dont knwo what to do.
Have been having problems with my wife for the pasts 2 years...we've been married 4 years.
I'm a an old farmboy and she is a town girl.
Almost since the beginning, she has had issues with my family and it is causing distress.
About 3 weeks ago, my dad asked me a legal question and my wife (an attorney) did about 10 minutes of research and prepared a response. She sent the 20 word paragraph response with me to take to him...my dad contacted another attory and found my wife was incorrect. On the note from my wife, my dad wrote only the word "wrong" and he sent it back with me. I dindt know he sent it back....my wife found it and blew up. I talked with him and he told me he didnt realize it was a mistake to do that...he said she was wrong and just wanted her to know. I told her about this and thought all was well. Anyways, my wife goes ahead and sends my dad a letter saying that she was trying to help him and that he obvously didnt appreciate her help and that she was never ever going to help him with anything again.
My dad gets this letter and cant sleep. He fires off a 5 page letter back to her that is pretty nasty...he told me he was going to do this and I intercepted the letter. He tells her about how terrible it is putting up with her crap over the years...many, many many problems....
She hasnt seen this letter yet.... Anyway, here we are...I too have many problems with her attitude and general state of the marriage. SInce we married, she wont go to church any longer and says that if we had a childh, she wouldnt want the kid to go to churck She is on 7-8 medications, including depression medicine for the last 3 years. She had said many hurtfull things to me about myself and her beliefs...I cannot see myself having children with her, but I want kids in my life. Many in my family dont talk to her becasue of things she has said to them over the years. We have been seeing a marriage counselor for 1 year....it hasnt helped much.
Each day I come home from work and she is napping...she doesnt cook, if I ask about it, I catch heck....she went to law school, but wont take the bar exam.,she has a good job with the state however. I know my marriage vows are for better or worse, sickness and health...and I really and torn by this.
So here I am at this stage, I dont know if I shoudl stay or go. How much can a person take or shoudl they take before it is better to be single or look elsewere for companionship?
Family is important to me and she doenst seem to get the picture that she has to be nice to others.
I predict that if this doesnt end now, it will be much worse in 5 years, once my returement and assets grow, right now, she doesnst have much, I have saved a lot...I know she will get 1/2 of it, I will get 1/2 of her clothes...yippee...
Please let me have your comments....
Thanks for any advice you can offer.
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