Wow! This IS off topic, but you deserve an answer. A person has to take things like this to where ever he"s comfortable.
There"s a zillion answers and 10 zillion more questions that need to be addressed. Not sure if there is any GOOD answers to some of your questions.
Marriage is a crapshoot at best. Especially so when 2 people marry at young ages. Many people aren"t done developing mentally, spiritually, emotionally, or intelectually until they"re way beyond their "adult years". It"s to be expected for some people to change course several times before they start to maintain one direction.
When you"re "young and in love", often times you simply just don"t see the obvious. A person may be a LOT different that you perceive them to be or HOPE them to be. Then we react to each other and make adjustments over time. Your wife may not have been that "perfect match" to begin with and you overlooked some of her "faults". She might have been viewing you in the same manner.
After having 2 daughters to grow up and marry, I"ve learned that it"s not just the women, but men too, that aren"t always what they appear. They change AFTER they get familiar and figure out what they can get away with. Long story short, you aren"t alone. It happens far too often.
As far as your father. That sort of thing happens. Part of life. It"s MUCH better when you have a supportive mate along side of you when you"re dealing with life"s hard times.
I"m always thinking about a line from the TV show M.A.S.H. A Navy pilot that was shot down, and ended up in the MASH hospital, and who THOUGHT he was JESUS told RADAR that "GOD LISTENS to all your prayers. HE just doesn"t always give you the ANSWER you wanted"
Hang in there. Cut your losses when you can and move on. Giving up on life isn"t the answer either. Salvage what you can and try to make the rest of your life as best as it can be.
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