Farming, death, having the talk, and how to proceed forw

Posted by T-Nason on October 27, 2022 at 19:58:11 from (172.58.122.223):

Going through a rough time after losing grandpa. Things havent been right since in the family. Im kinda caught in the middle of my surviving grandmother and parents. Grandma is renting the farm out, which honestly stung a lot. Ive been on the place since I was born and working it since I was able (25 now). It feels weird, almost like a stranger on your own fields now. Ive tried to approach my grandmother about renting it myself earlier this season or buying it out piece by piece but I was refused on the pretext Im to busy to mess with farming.
My question, how have you gone forward if youve been in a similar situation? I would love to continue this farm as Im the 6th generation. But it doesnt feel like theres a family anymore. I love these people but its just driving me nuts. For what its worth, I was an only child, my mother was an only, and there is no siblings on my grandmothers or grandfathers side with any interest.

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